Evaluate his desires
Yes, he should desire you. Yes, he should be physically attracted to you. But most importantly, he must be attracted to you mentally and have his biggest desire be that of seeing what he can do to help you become the best you can be. Evaluate his desires.
A real man knows that having you by his side will make his life journey better and his hustle and grind, easier. If he knows these things, then he will be happy to wait for your body to be given to him on your wedding day. His desire to see you succeed will be born from his confidence that your success is his success. If you are at the stage in your relationship where the thought of your body is a desire, then he should have already decided that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. If he is indeed going to spend his life with you, then he will have the rest of your lives to enjoy your body (in the correct boundaries of marriage). Evaluate his desires.
If he says he cannot wait, and his desire to see you naked is greater than his desire to work on your success; my daughter, walk away. Trust me, he will not use the words, “I desire to see you naked,” but if he shows it in his actions, your response should be the same: walk away. God will bring the right man at the appropriate time. In the meantime, keep building yourself into the best and most successful wife material that you can be.
Be patient. Evaluate your desires.
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